How do you know you are being discarded?

Ghosting. The clearest sign of a discard is when they leave. Narcissists stop contacting you, and there is no explanation. Narcissistic ghosting is a push-pull game, where they push you away, hoping you'll pull back. Ghosting also occurs because narcissists have usually found a new supply or are busy hunting for one.

1. How does it feel to be discarded?
2. How do you know it's the final discard?
3. When have you been discarded by a narcissist?
4. Does the narcissist think about you after discard?
5. What are narcissists discarding behaviors?
6. How long until a narcissist comes back?
7. What happens when you dump a narcissist first?
8. What will a narcissist do to get you back?
9. What happens when a narcissist sees you with someone else?
10. What will a narcissist say to get you back?
11. What happens when you give a narcissist the silent treatment?
12. Why does a narcissist leave you for someone else?
13. When should you leave a narcissist?

How does it feel to be discarded?

When you're first discarded you don't understand what's happening. You're dazed, confused, and relentlessly pursuing the one you love — the very person who's discarded you. It's a feeling that can't be described in any other way than nonsensical. And it leaves you reeling with shock and pain.

How do you know it's the final discard?

The narcissist final discard occurs when they finally have squeezed every last ounce of joy and self-worth from you. They've grown bored of the relationship and you serve no further purpose. ... At no point will they take any responsibility for their role in ending their relationship.

When have you been discarded by a narcissist?

A narcissist will discard when the person no longer can boost the narc's ego or be the fuel to replenish their narcissistic supply. If you have ever been discarded, it can feel personal. One day you think the relationship is going good, or at least improving from its low, and the next day you are discarded.

Does the narcissist think about you after discard?

Many narcissistic individuals are quite capable of assuring you that you are the love of their life one day, and then suddenly leave you for someone else because they got angry or bored. Their desire to reconnect with you after the “discard,” is equally shallow. ... This is equally true of narcissistic men and women.

What are narcissists discarding behaviors?

The person with narcissism often may begin—subtly, insidiously, and covertly—to devalue his or her significant other. ... Inevitably, the discarding occurs when the person with narcissism either disappears or orchestrates his or her own abandonment by engaging in some form of egregious emotional abuse.

How long until a narcissist comes back?

So, in short, the answer is yes, a narcissist will continue to come back after “no contact” until their targets cut off all forms of narcissistic supply, leaving them no choice but to go find other prey upon which to feed.

What happens when you dump a narcissist first?

Breaking up with a narcissist is likely to be a draining experience. Either they won't let you go without a fight, or they will discard you without looking back. Both experiences are extremely hurtful.

What will a narcissist do to get you back?

Narcissists like to isolate their victims from others so they can have complete control; by talking to others, you will hear different opinions, especially from those who truly care about you. Take back your power by educating yourself, connecting with others, and planning a safe exit. Understand trauma-bonding.

What happens when a narcissist sees you with someone else?

Narcissistic people are unable to feel genuine happiness because they severely, or even completely, lack a sense of genuine self. ... So when they see someone else doing well, they feel envy and resentment. Here, the narcissist believes that they deserve whatever you have achieved because they are better than you.

What will a narcissist say to get you back?

Another strategy used by the narcissist to “get back” is to start blaming the other partner for incidentals but over and over again. They might say, “You're holding me back,” for example, when they seek constant activity with no downtime.

What happens when you give a narcissist the silent treatment?

Basically, the silent treatment is a passive-aggressive behavior by which an abuser communicates some sort of negative message to the intended victim that only the perpetrator and the victim recognize through nonverbal communication.

Why does a narcissist leave you for someone else?

The narcissist really needs to take responsibility for their own self-healing and self-love. Sadly, though, they keep seeing other people as the solution to their problem. This is why they line up other people or sources of supply to fulfill their needs before even leaving you.

When should you leave a narcissist?

Leaving a narcissist is similar to breaking a heroin addiction. It is painful and difficult, but in the end, you get your life back. In order to get yourself through the hardest parts of the initial break, you must allow yourself to experience the discomfort and anxiety, and let yourself grieve your loss.